说愛

爱是恒久忍耐又有恩慈　爱是不嫉妒
爱是不自夸不张狂　不做害羞的事
不求自己的益处　不轻易发怒
不计算人家的恶　不喜欢不义只喜欢真理
凡事包容　凡事相信　凡事盼望
凡事忍耐　凡事要忍耐　爱是永不止息

爱的真缔取自经文：哥林多前书十三章

在教会常听到这首歌，在婚礼上也常听到牧师以这篇經文为引祝福新人白头谐老。前几天看到＂爱的真缔＂实在忍不住说说我的看法~

其实我很不欣赏＂爱的真缔＂，因为这种对爱的反应不正常，应该是用来告诫人对爱情"该有"的正面态度。也许＂爱的真缔＂反应的该是亲情和友情吧！

我的爱，是无理自私，是强烈占有, 是无法掩饰的激动, 是无法抗拒的嫉妒。所谓的大爱 是存在的，但是我觉得那并不是爱情。当我能以＂爱的真缔＂般对一个人，我肯定不再跟他说 I LOVE YOU!

2010

Irene started taking piano lesson from Ms. Julie Chung in January. Instant improvement has been noticed!!! Even though the tuition is a lot more than our previous teacher, I think it's worth every penny of it! Irene had made big progress in just 4 lessons!

Ms. Julie's house is in Plano, about 30 min drive from our new house. Every Sat we leave the house at 11am and Irene's lesson starts at 11:30am. Norm and I will then take Harrison to a closeby Starbucks. Harrison will order a cup of kid's hot coco...last Sat, after finishing his hot coco, he wanted to go to the restroom (poopoo). I had the honor of taking him to the ladies' room...put toilet papers around the seat, sat him down, and then squat down with him. Harrison looked me in the eyes and said, "Mommy, are you available to love me?" hahaha....the other day, we were at home while he said,"Mommy, too bad I cannot marry you, daddy already did!"

Talk about little boy's obsession with mommy!!